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LITTLE JOYS: 3rd April 2023

It’s a shame not all little joys can be photographed! This week I heard the year’s first chiffchaff and saw the first brimstone butterflies whizz by – both signs of spring that make my heart happy! I also realised there are red kites nesting in the trees opposite our house, and I’ve been watching them […]

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LITTLE JOYS: 20th March 2023

I’ve been feeling quite depressed this week. Noticing little joys is one of my defenses against it, but so too are choosing not to worry about it, and choosing not to identify with it. Anthony de Mello’s book ‘Awareness’ completely changed my relationship with depression – here are some key lessons from it: You Are

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LITTLE JOYS: 30th January 2023

Because it’s not the big goals and successes in life that bring true happiness, but the little joys that you choose to notice each day. Started the week with a wintery walk on the common. Frosty undergrowth. Crystal magic! Isn’t this the prettiest puddle? Found this spider at home and have been trying to identify

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LITTLE JOYS: 16th January 2023

This ‘Blue Monday’ I’m wondering why society would choose to label a particular day as being a negative experience. Wouldn’t it be much better if we called it ‘Kindness Monday’ or ‘Gratitude Monday’ or ‘Making Plans Monday’? Always remember, you get to control how you experience life, and you can choose joy every day by

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